I love how people who i thought i considered friends just keep using me.
They know i'll be there for them, they know if they need money and i can help them out that i will.. but now i'm in my own little funk and the only people i can count on to be there for me are two of my sisters, my bf, and my parents.
One friend who considers me a sister owes me about $200, an ex-roommate of mine also owes me $200, and another friend owes me about $30. And considering my situation right now and the people that are involved i probably won't see that money ever again. Everyone else that asks to borrow money from me pays me back promptly! These people have taken their good old time to pay me back. And not even attempting to at that.
The one friend told me she had to pay a bill that was 100 something bucks so she didn't have the money to pay me when i had asked for it the first time yet she had 400 bucks on her person!
Hopefully i will be able to get this money from these people. If not i don't think i can really do anything because it wasn't documented. However the one person i know for a fact i'm going to drop as a "friend" i've been knowing for awhile i should but i can't take the stress she puts me under anymore.
If it's not this money issue it's the fact that she still has feelings for my boyfriend but she won't openly admit it. And frankly i'm just tired of hearing it. She has a boyfriend she shouldn't have feelings for mine. It's one of those situations where she'll tell me how great her boyfriend is and how much she loves her boyfriend but if i say something like that she just doesn't want to hear it because it hurts her too much. And when she hangs out with me she has to constantly say "oh it's getting better" when in reality i know it's not if she has to keep saying it. See at first when i started dating my boyfriend i could stand to hear this stuff but now, it's getting super annoying to the point where i want to bite her head off.
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